Few people enjoy stress. Most of us, in fact, have specific methods for relieving stress: a hot bath, a hot fudge sundae, a long run, etc. But Elaine Johannes, Research and Extension Youth Development Specialist from Kansas State University reminds us that, when handled properly, stress can motivate a teenager to finish a school project or finally begin studying for an exam.
“’When faced with a stressful situation, it’s best not to assume that you know how others are feeling,’ [Charlotte Shoup] Olsen said. ‘Be respectful, and step up to share the responsibility, rather than trying to place the blame.’… Make time to talk about the stressor, but, if tempers flare, take 20 minutes or more for a time out to calm down…” [Source: Marion (KS) County Record]
Parents also need to remember that teenagers don’t respond to stress the same way as adults. They may need more encouragement to talk about stress and figure out solutions rather than ignoring the cause of the stress.
For students who are overwhelmed by stress, professional intervention may be the best option.
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