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Relationship with Mom Impacts Eating Disorder Recovery

When an adolescent girl is recovering from an eating disorder, her relationship with her mother can be more of a deterrent than a motivator. Mother-daughter relationships are complicated, and unrealistic expectations – by both parties – can hinder a child’s recovery.

A clinical lecturer at Northwestern University, where she is affiliated with both the Family Institute and the Department of Psychology, Weigel Foy endorses an introspective look at this unique relationship and believes temporary distance from family members allows many adolescent and teenage girls to feel safe exploring the mother-daughter relationship in ways they haven’t been able to during prior treatment for anorexia or bulimia. [Source: Melodika]

A residential treatment center can give a teen that much-needed distance and time to take an honest look at her relationships, uncovering negative behaviors and patterns.


 

Labels: relationships, parenting, mothers, eating disorders

Posted By: Boarding Schools for Girls

Comments:

Kensington on 8/11/2010
Ah, the mother-daughter relationship. So many girls/women who have eating disorders took on board messages that their mothers never consciously meant to send them. When a girl grows up hearing negative body image messages from her mother ("I have to wear my fat pants", "That girl is too heavy to attract a great man", "I hate my big _____ (body part)"), she takes that on board and often models it in her own self-image and view of her body. It's important for both moms and daughters to examine what messages they have ingrained in them and how to rewire the negative ones. All women and girls are beautiful and deserving of self-love. It's the most empowering gift we can give ourselves.